Goodness me, I can’t believe the incredible amount of love we have received since announcing our pregnancy! You guys rock! I really am so lucky to have such gorgeous people surrounding me and as much as I don’t know each and every one of you individually, the love you have for me is never unnoticed or unfelt.
20 weeks we decided was the perfect time to share with the Internet and I guess that was for a number of reasons. This little bubba growing in my tummy was not something that once again come easy as we had to go through yet another miscarriage a few weeks beforehand. That brings me to 4 at just 25, crazy right? Do you know what though? I am completely fine and at peace with it, as its created another really great lesson for us.
This blessing we received is so precious and the thought of being able to enjoy it between us for the first half meant that we could have a little fun with it. We could step out as a family and no one but ourselves knew we had a little life growing inside. Even the kids enjoyed keeping it a secret, but I must say they did slip up quite a bit which I guess is also something we can laugh about now too.
I think once you share something with the world its no longer yours anymore is it, it becomes everybody’s information and as much as we wanted to share that we also wanted to wait until we were feeling ready. Not everyone is going to be showering you with love, and with all the positivity and beautiful words come the dickheads with their wonderful opinions to of course! Either way, I’m way too happy up here to be worrying about how sad it must be down there..
To everyone who has left messages, thank you. From the bottom of our hearts we are so so thankful. The girls are so so excited and over the next 5 months I’ll make sure I try and answer as many questions as possible for those needing some guidance.
Take care, Abby xx